HOW TO OVERCOME FAILURE AND GET THE RESULTS YOU DESIRE

Failure is a part of everyone’s life. No matter how much you achieve in your life, you can never be sure of what the next step has in store for you. Even the most experienced people in life have trouble handling failures. And when such failures occur in education, they are all the most devastating. A number of students slide into depression when faced with failure while some when take the extreme step and end their lives. You must understand the reasons for failure: 1. Lack of confidence 2. Too much effort or no efforts Your failure o get results may also be a consequence of mentally making such statements as: 1. Things are getting worse 2. I will never get an answer 3. I see no way out 4. I don’t know what to do 5. I am all mixed up When you see such statements, you get no response from your subconscious mind. It’s the state where you gets confuse with the directions. To help you fight out the tough days of your life, we have some easy tips in store for you here – Don’t press the panic button In 99% cases, the first reaction after a failure is to get panicked. While this comes as the natural reaction, it can further drown you into a never ending spiral. The foremost thing to understand is that you need to stay calm no matter what the situation is. This is not the only chance that you would get in your life and you aren’t the only person who failed the exam. There are always some alternatives available. But to understand those, you need to be in the best frame of mind. Keep a lid on your emotions Most people find it hard to control their emotions in the times of success or failure. Over the top display of emotions can severely hurt your chances of making a comeback. A successful person behaves in the same manner at the times of success and failure. Do not torture yourself for what has already happened. Rather strengthen your preparation and waste little time in taking another shot at it. Learn for the future They say that a failure can teach you more than what 100 successes can, which is indeed true. Failure is just a comma and not a full stop. It gives you time to re-group and come back stronger than before, with a fresh approach. But taking the same approach that failed you the last time won’t get you through. You must analyze your failure and try to decipher what went wrong and how you can better that. Get some inspiration from others No matter how big is your failure, there is always someone who failed worse than you and came back stronger. Think of other people who went through the same ordeal and came back stronger to win against the odds. If they can do it, there is no reason why you can’t! Most importantly, don’t stop trying! The moment you give up, half your war is lost! Never lose faith in yourself. You may not be the best and you aren’t the worst either! Do not let yourself get bogged down in thinking about details & means. Know what the end result will be. Get the feel of the happy solution to your problem, whether its health, finances or personal relationships. Use imagination, not willpower. When your desires & imagination are in conflict, your imagination invariably gains the day. Great people solve their dilemmas & problems by the play of their controlled, directed & disciplined imagination. Mental confusion or anxiety blocks your mind & remove ease to perform any task. Think & plan before you start each step to accomplish goal. Imagination is the most powerful faculty. Imagine what is lovely & good. Every thought is a cause & every condition is an effect. You imagine what you want to be. Change your thoughts, you change your destiny. Begin now to sow thoughts of peace, happiness, right action, goodwill & prosperity. Think quietly & with conviction on these qualities. Accept them fully in your conscious reasoning mind. Continue to plant these wonderful seeds of thought in the garden of our mind & you’ll reap a glorious harvest.